If you’ve ever had a kid, you probably know what I am talking about. If you’ve experienced multiple pregnancies, then I am sure you’ve experienced what I am talking about. That little pooch in the front of your midsection that lingers around after you’ve had a baby. Most of the time it dissipates largely in a few months. However, in my situation, it never had time to dissipate at all. I gained a whopping 60 lbs when I was pregnant with my son (Before you judge me, please know that becoming pregnant with him immediately cured me from the lingering threat of anorexia). When he was three months old, I got pregnant with his sister (We wanted them that close together, I LOVE it). I managed to only gain 30 lbs when I was pregnant with her (I did lose 20 lbs during the first 24 weeks because I was sick as a dog!). When she was six months old, however, I found myself pregnant once again. So, in the three years that I spent being pregnant (Exactly, the month of conception of my oldest, three years later, was the month of birth of my youngest).
I never had time to get rid of that pooch before I had to add on to it. Add to that the scar tissue from one c-section, and a spiderweb of stretchmarks, I felt that my poor stomach would forever look to be 4-6 months pregnant. Also, because of the timing of my children (don’t forget the major abdominal surgery of the c-section), I suffered from TERRIBLE diastasis recti. That is a painless separation of your abdominal muscles. I have spent almost 8 months now working on healing the diastasis recti, and I am actually quite proud to say that I have gone from an almost four finger-width of separation to 1/2 a finger-width of separation. The secret to THIS is planks, and lots and lots of patience!
Working out at the YMCA this past month and working on other areas of my body as well as aerobic excersizing now means that for the first time in almost 5 years, I can accomplish a sit-up. No more crunches for me! I’ve still got quite a ways to go to get my stomach back in shape, but I now believe that the idea that your body wont ever be the same after having a baby is just an excuse to not even try (and an excuse to hold off on having children to begin with). I am still nursing my baby (who will be 18 months old next month), and while I am suspecting some saggy breasts (especially after having 1-2 nursing children for 4 years straight), I know that they don’t have to be saggy forever. And the added bonus is, by getting rid of my mommy tummy in this way, I am actually in better shape than I was before my mommy tummy even developed! And I can be more proud of it too, because I’ve actually had to work for it!
- That lovely mommy tummy (mommyunderconstruction.wordpress.com)
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- The Aftermath..a.k.a. “postpartum”. The unofficial guide (unforeseenstayathomemom.com)
- Fresno moms share their post-baby bellies (fresnobee.com)
- Post Natal Floor Workout Part 1 (alternativeeating.me)
- Tummy Tuck – Considerations For Potential Patients (tummytuckservice.wordpress.com)